Manzilian Wax Acceptable Rules of Behaviour
Acceptable rules of behaviour during a Manzilian or Men's Brazilian wax can differ depending on therapist gender and the type of studio you attend.
Universal rules of etiquette for every men's waxing provider
- Don't come to your appointment drunk or smelling of alcohol;
- Don't wear a cock ring or erection enhancer of any kind;
- Don't come soaking in sweat from the gym or sports;
- If possible, shower before your treatment;
- Use wet wipes on your butt crack so it's clean;
- Unless advertised, don't ask your therapist for a happy ending.
Rules of etiquette when your therapist is female
Men will be left in the treatment room to prepare for their Manzilian wax. When the therapist is female, clients will usually be expected to wear disposable underwear for their Brazilian wax treatment.
You will also be required to hold the skin of your penis and scrotum tight so therapists don't have to touch your junk.
Some unisex studios might not be that prudish, but be prepared because it's definitely the norm.
Finally, your therapist is only doing her job. She sees genitals all day. Your cock is not special and she is not remotely excited to see it.
She does not crave sex with you or want to be your girlfriend.
- Don't flirt or have inappropriate conversations with her;
- Don't ask about her private life or relationships;
- Don't ask for her private number so you can book with her directly;
- Don't 'accidentally' brush against her body;
- Don't force an erection or deliberately throb;
- Don't stroke yourself;
- Don't expose your genitals unnecessarily before or after treatment;
- Don't ask her to apply more lotion;
- Don't masturbate in the treatment room after your treatment;
- Don't hang around the shop waiting for her shift to end;
- Don't cyber-stalk her on social media.
Rules of etiquette when your therapist is male
Etiquette is usually less formalised with man-on-man waxing. In fact, I don't even have an etiquette policy, simply because we're both men.
There's no gender disadvantage or confusion. A lifetime of being male has taught both therapist and client that they must treat each other respectfully to get along.
I discuss later how new male clients usually try to work out the sexual proclivities of their male therapist. It's reciprocal too. The therapist is trying to determine the same.
This process has nothing to do with sex. It's all about finding a starting point with a new client e.g. finding common ground and avoiding touchy topics. Therapists want to put new clients at ease, and as quickly as possible.
One of my usual introductory questions is, "Are you getting a Manzilian for yourself or for your partner?"
Straight guys typically jump on the subject and talk about their wife or girlfriend or how they've recently joined Tinder, just in case I was thinking of hitting on them.
Gay guys often run with it too, taking this early opportunity to out themselves to make sure that I'm gay-friendly, before complimenting my legs. 😇
Either way, this subtle approach lets me establish the tone of the waxing treatment, and also keep the client talking so they don't focus too much on any potential pain.
An important note about waxing room fantasies
For clients, please realise that any erotic thrills you experience during your wax are purely your own. Your foggy brain might fantasise that since your therapist 'caused' your erection, they have an obligation to relieve it.
Don't go there. Your waxing therapist sees 🍆🍆 all day. Unless you've gone to an obvious sex worker, they really don't want to finish you off. You'll just come off as a sex creep.
One other tip; If you do find that you're enjoying your waxing session too much and are dangerously close to climax, warn your therapist before it happens.
Let's be honest here. You're a guy, I'm a guy, we wank a lot, we both know how this works.
A good ten seconds before you shoot your load, you feel that warmth in your perineum, then your balls start to rise and tighten.
You feel it building, tensing, and then boom.
Your therapist has no idea you're about to cum, especially if it's a young female.
Right now, while some INNOCENT girl is holding your erection, is where you prove what kind of man you are.
Nice guy or pervert? Decent human being or sex predator?
The creep will let it happen, while the nice guy will tell her, "Please stop. I'm close".
Warn her early. She'll let go, and she'll look at you with new respect, abundantly grateful you didn't cum on her face or uniform.
You just became her favourite client. Feel good about yourself. Take a few breaths, and when you're ready to continue, let her know.
Male versus Female waxing therapists ★ Rules of Etiquette
Is there really a difference whether your Manzilian waxer is male or female? Absolutely. There are quite a few considerations, and this is why you'll come across different rules of etiquette depending on the type of waxing provider you go to, and whether they have male or female staff.
Female therapists
By default, females are skittish about doing men's waxing. I could have a big rant about sexism in the beauty industry, but there's a flipside to that argument in that a lot of women are just skittish about men in general.
After all, beauty salon operators and staff might view their workplace as a female safe place, a haven where they don't have to deal with men's BS.
There's also a fair chance that by the time most women enter the workforce, they've already had a few awful experiences at the hands of utter mongrels.
Those two factors are absolutely the main reasons why most beauty salons don't offer male services, let alone Manzilians.
Of course there are exceptions to the 'timid flower' stereotype. Some women are tough as nails. The reality though, is that most beauty therapists got into the industry to do facials and nails while skipping about looking pretty. Naked guys with boners don't fit into that vision.
Girls also have to deal with their partner's insecurities. Over the years, I had probably a dozen girls tearfully give up their careers because a new boyfriend didn't trust them doing treatments on men. That says more about the boyfriends than the girls, but it does suck.
So yeah, female therapists performing treatments on men can definitely be a mine field.
For all the above reasons, salons and studios that employ mostly female staff will have tough etiquette policies. And the cops on speed dial.
Male therapists
It's a totally different experience for male waxing therapists, but can still be dangerous, especially for noobs.
An interesting quirk of the beauty industry that doesn't happen in any other, is that a man's sexual persuasion can be a major factor for his success or failure.
This is largely because new Manzilian Wax clients - especially jumpy alpha types - tend to think of their treatments sexually. Some will even ask outright if you're gay ... because apparently, they're too sexy to resist.
This type of pent up narcissist will judge a male therapist minutely; voice, clothes, the way he walks, everything, in an effort to gauge whether the therapist is likely to molest him.
In truth though, his fear is probably internalised. He's actually worried he'll get a boner while a male is holding his junk, and that's a lifetime of baggage he doesn't want to unfold.
Meanwhile, the therapist is simply doing his job, completely oblivious to said lunatic's delusions, and trying to make small talk to put the client at ease.
But are they bent or not?
Male Brazilian wax therapists rarely reveal their sexual leanings, a) for fear of the above, and b) because it's nobody's business. However, it's a fair assumption that most, myself included, are bisexual.
Hardcore straight guys are too uptight to consider male waxing as a career. Living a pure vanilla life with a missus and 2.3 kids, means constantly caring about how colleagues and neighbours judge you.
Equally, outside of the inner-city gay districts in large cities, openly gay male therapists are a rarity too. Overt flamboyance is too much overload for the vast majority of straight male clients in the suburbs, and naturally, you can't survive in business without clients.
Bisexual guys are definitely the norm, or at least they become aware of their own bisexuality after a while in the job. This is due to their constant and unique exposure to clients' lifestyles, secrets, and fantasies - and mutual acceptance and trust - which breeds open-mindedness.
As a result, male Brazilian wax therapists are generally easygoing, confident in their skills, can see the world in shades of grey, and care little about other people's opinions.
Male-first studios with male therapists will usually have the most laidback etiquette policies because nothing a client does or says will surprise him. That won't necessarily make a client's behaviour acceptable, but he'll be prepared.
As for safety, a male therapist doesn't need the cops on speed dial. If you do the wrong thing, alpha or not, he'll kick your arse.
And on that fine note, I'll leave this article there. I have quite a bit I still want to add to this page but that's for another day.